The part you don't see
Once a request lands in the chat, a short sequence runs on our side before any reply goes out, and almost none of it is visible from where you are sitting. It usually takes a few minutes rather than being instant, and knowing roughly what happens in that gap makes the wait feel a great deal shorter.
None of it is complicated. It is simply the difference between a reply that is actually checked against reality and one that is typed without looking at anything, and we would rather you wait a short moment for the first kind.
Checking the diary first
The first thing that happens is a look at whoever you named, or at the wider roster if you asked to be matched instead. This is a genuine check rather than a formality, since a reply confirming a companion who is actually busy that evening would only cause a longer delay later.
If the companion you asked for is free, the reply moves straight to timing. If she is not, the reply says so plainly and, more often than not, arrives with a suggestion for who else on the roster suits the evening you described.
Then checking the traffic
With a companion confirmed as free, the next question is timing, how long the drive to your address genuinely takes at that hour, on that particular evening. This is where a request for our hotel outcall service gets its realistic arrival window rather than a rough estimate, since the actual route and the actual hour both feed into the number you get back.
A quiet Tuesday evening and a busy Friday night can produce noticeably different arrival times for the exact same distance, which is precisely why this step happens every time rather than being skipped for speed.
The reply that comes back
What lands in your chat afterwards is a specific arrival window, not a vague promise, along with a figure if your booking runs longer than the first hour. Nothing in that reply is final yet, you are free to ask a question, compare a second name, or simply sit with it for a minute before saying yes; the booking page walks through this exact stage in more detail.
Lucy, among our petite companions, is a good example of how quickly this whole sequence can move when the diary and the traffic both cooperate, sometimes confirmed within a couple of minutes of the first message landing.
Once you say yes
Confirming is the moment she actually gets ready and sets off, so nothing about the drive begins before you have agreed the details in writing. From here your side of the evening is essentially done, the one small task left is having the exact room or a way in ready to pass along the moment you have it yourself.
An address in the Jordaan, with its narrower streets and older buildings, sometimes benefits from a quick extra line about the entrance at this stage, simply because first-time visitors to those buildings occasionally need a moment longer to find the right door.
If something needs adjusting
Plans shift between confirming and arrival more often than you might expect, a meeting overruns, a table opens up earlier than planned. Flagging it the moment you know is usually enough on its own, a fresh time is worked out on the spot rather than needing several messages back and forth to settle.
It works the other way too. Should something on our end need a small adjustment, heavier traffic than expected, a companion's evening running slightly behind, we say so plainly and send a revised time straight away, rather than leaving you to notice the delay on your own.
When your request is a longer format
A request built around dinner, an overnight or any other longer shape of evening goes through the same two checks, the diary and the timing, but the reply itself takes a little more shape, since a single overall figure has to be worked out rather than an hourly rate simply applied. That figure is put together honestly, covering the whole evening you described rather than being padded to cover uncertainty.
This is why a request for one of these formats occasionally takes a few minutes longer to answer than a straightforward hourly visit would. The wait buys you an accurate number rather than a rough one, quoted on request and confirmed in writing before anything else about the evening moves forward.
A request sent outside busy hours
A message sent in the middle of the afternoon, or well before midnight on a quiet Tuesday, tends to move through this whole sequence fastest of all, simply because fewer other requests are competing for the same attention at that moment. None of this means a message sent at a busier hour is treated any less carefully, it usually just takes a touch longer to reach the front of the queue.
If timing matters to you, a request sent as early in the day as your plans allow is generally answered quickest, regardless of which companion or format you have in mind. A message sent from abroad before you have even landed goes through exactly the same sequence, the diary is checked and the timing worked out the moment it arrives, whatever time zone it was written in.
Asked before setting off
How long does the reply usually take?
A few minutes in most cases, sometimes less. At the busiest hours it can take a little longer while several diaries are checked at once, but the line itself is always being watched.
What if the companion I asked for is busy?
That's flagged straight away, together with a genuine suggestion for someone else who fits the evening you described. The reply never pretends otherwise just to keep the conversation moving.
Is the arrival time in the reply exact?
It is a realistic window built from her actual diary and the actual traffic, rather than a guess, so it holds unless something genuinely unusual happens on the way.
Can I still change my mind after the reply comes back?
Yes, nothing is confirmed until you say so. The reply is information you can act on whenever you are ready, not a countdown.
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